关于地震，已经听得太多，说得太多了。基本都充斥了我每天的生活，本来是打算趁着这个星期，去四川看望胡婆婆的，谁知道突如其来的地震把一切都搅乱了。（当然，婆婆同学也很安全的呆在武汉，没有回学校，那真是一个奇迹，话说他买的是12号的票，因为恰巧十一号的卖完了，否则后果难以预料啊），可能正是因为想着，原本这个时候我应该也是在四川的某个地方。
而且当年去九寨沟的时候，在绵阳和茂县都停留过，吃过饭，都江堰也去过，所以很多地方听起来，看起来，那么熟悉，哎，不说了
昨天和宝宝同学去了归元寺，说是去给灾区的人们祈福，其实这些天真的是心里很不平静，于是前天打了个电话给宝宝。。就说想要去烧株香，正好她也有此意，（真是母女连心啊），于是就吭哧吭哧跑了去。果然从庙里出来心里舒服了许多，生活还要继续。。。于是去吃饭买衣服。。
今天参加了羽毛球“奥运会选拔赛”很久没有这样运动过了，很累很累，但是至少让我觉得自己还活着，而且和不死小强一样，活得很结实。。。
后来探讨了关于暧昧的问题，突然想到一个在我眼中很喜欢玩暧昧的人，当然现在证明这是一种偏见或者是误解，（当然，他的个人作风和行为难免让人浮想联翩的空间），竟然在这么危险的时候疯疯癫癫的跑去四川了，虽然不清楚是不是为了感情，但真的让我对暧昧有了重新的定义。（在此对这位同学表示敬佩）
首先，暧昧这东西很玄妙，我们常常嗤之以鼻，觉得不是一个有脸有皮对感情认真负责的人应该掺和的活动，而且很容易让人想到一脚踏几船，或者怪叔叔迷惑未成年小妹妹的招数。
但现在我发现，暧昧并不可怕，滥情才是真正的秒杀，想想，一个人昨天还说爱你爱得情深意切，今天便转身走得义无反顾，这叫什么，很惭愧的说，在这种人中，女人居多，因为这如果配合着楚楚可怜的样子，便不会被人责怪，最多说成是不成熟或者善变，如果能再哭的梨花带雨，估计搁谁哪都得心软。话说我们也都是老大不小的人了，该学着为自己的感情负责，在没有弄懂之前，就别到处祸害伤害别人，也刺着自己。当然，如果决心捅人一刀，抹不抹点蜜估计无关紧要的，干脆就下毒手得了，图个痛快。。。
杂言碎语，看着扎眼睛。。。不说也罢。。。

0. First, the ugly truth about beauty (July 25th)

Just a quick word before we start....

There's no other way to say it. Beauty is by far the #1 factor determining the value of women in the dating world. That's just the world we live in and nothing you do will change that. If you meet his physical standards, you've already won 70% of the battle. The rest is ensuring you do not screw up the remaining 30% or lose him to a competitor. If you don't meet his standards, the rest of this thread is pointless because no strategy will work. Sorry. Guys are highly visual creatures.

BUT!!! HERE'S SOME GOOD NEWS....

Beauty is HIGHLY subjective. Unless you're in the extremes, you will never be perceived as being pretty or ugly by everyone. Your job is to identify the subset of guys who think you meet his physical standards. Once identified, you work on this subset with ideas raised on this thread. Unless you're hopelessly hedious, there will always be guys who find you attractive if you make an effort.

Speaking of making an effort, here's another piece of good news! Girls can usually improve her appearance (to some extent) and appeal to a larger subset. There are some tricks that I will discuss next time on how to do this. It won't perform miracles -- but if he thinks you're borderline, it can make or break you!

To summarize:

- If you don't meet his physical standards, you're wasting your time.
- If you meet his physical standards, the rest of this thread is for you.
- If you are borderline, you must do the things mentioned on the next article.

How do you know where you stand in these three catagories with him? LET'S CUT THE BS. You can feel it. Unlike girls, guys know exactly what they want and are direct in pursuing it. If you flirt with him and he reciprocates, you're in the game. If he frequently steal glances at you, you're in the game. If he does neither, game is over for you. It's that simple. Guys do not flirt or stare at girls whom they find unattractive.

A final word. Don't think just because you meet his physical standards, it means he likes you. It doesn't. Let me give you an example. I have a tall white female coworker who worked as a model and have appeared in TV commercials. Even though I find her absolutely beautiful, I'm not interested in white chicks and she's too tall. Therefore, even if she meets my physical standards, I have zero interest. So there's a BIG DIFFERENCE between meeting his standards and winning his affection.

OK, now that you can determine if you're in the game or not, let the fun begin...

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1. How to (somewhat) improve your appearance (July 27th)

As mentioned last time, there are a few things you can do to improve your appearance. But don't fool yourself. These ideas are meant only for girls who are considered "borderline" by the guy. It will not perform miracles.

There are three physical changes all girls can do to improve their apperance. Shedding extra weight. Sorry, but excess weight is a serious killer to your desirability. A guy will forgive an unattractive face before he forgives an unattractive physique. You don't have to be super slender...just not over, say, 25 lbs overweight. I'm sorry if you have a horrible genetic disposition, but the only reason girls are grossly overweight is because she has made a poor lifestyle choice. I know dieting and exercising are hard, but if you want to, you can do it. Shedding excess pounds not only enhances desirability, you'll also live a healthier life. So do it for yourself if for no other reason! Flirty dressing. OK, at the risk of sounding like a pervert, I'll say it.  Guys prefer girls who wear clothing that's slightly revealing and flirty. Yes, you have show some skin -- just not too much to be considered slutty or gross. A good example can be seen from Taiwanese entertainer Rainie Yang (pic1 pic2 pic3). I'm not a fan of hers, but she has killer fashion sense with a good balance of being flirty, sexy and classy. Invest in an awesome haircut. It's amazing how the right hair can make a BIG difference. Hair should be feminine, trendy and conservative. It's not a place to "make a statement" or be experimental. No short hair. No lame coloring.By the way, there are also personality changes that are just as effective! This is something most girls don't understand. They spend zillions on diets pills and makeup when the cheapest and easiest way to improve your appearance is to smile, act friendly and flirty! The obvious reason is because a smiley upbeat face is prettier than a bitchy or unemotional one. But there is another "scientific" reason.... 

If a guy enjoys your personality, his brain gets fooled into thinking you're prettier than you really are. Why? Because the human brain equates kindness with beauty. In fairy tales, kind people are pretty (like Snow White or Cinderella) while mean people are ugly (like witches). These stereotypes exploit how the quirky brain works. Have you ever heard guys say "I never noticed her but she's kinda cute" or "dang, she has really grown on me". When he says this, it means her personality has altered his visual perception. The eye sees the same girl, but the brain intervenes to psychologically boost her level of beauty.

So take a risk, smile and be friendly and flirty! You'll become instantly more attractive.  A future article will discuss strategies on how to go about doing this...

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2. Becoming the subordinate (July 29th)

The idea that women want equality in a relationship is pure BS. Girls want a guy who is smarter, older, earns more money, has more education, etc. She also expects him to make the first move, initiate the first phone call, ask for the first date, propose marriage, etc. In short, girls want guys to be a superior and to lead. This hardly sounds like "equality", does it?

Guess what? Guys desire this arrangement too! He wants to be a superior and to find a girl whom he can offer his guidance and support. He wants to lead just like she wants him to lead. He leads; she follows. This arrangement has existed for as long as humans has walked the earth. It exists for one simple reason: that's how the human brain is designed. The male and female brains are structurally different and designed to play gender specific roles they were born to play. The more you resist the natural order, the more problems you will face in your relationships.

Therefore, if you want to increase your chances of success with guys, you should play the role designed for women in the natural order. You don't act like a superior or become a control freak. Instead, playing the role of a subordinate, you should make him feel that you need his advice, support and guidance. For example, you should frequently ask him for help with homework or get his advice on fixing your car. You're the damsel in distress and he's the knight coming to save you. I'm not suggesting for you to become a completely helpless little girl. Nobody can respect a women who is dumb and incompetent. But you need to make him feel that you look up to him. When you do so sufficiently, it will strike his natural masculine impulse to care for a women.

I know with the feminist movement, some of you will thrash me for being sexist and chauvinistic. But cut the BS.  As mentioned in the first paragraph, girls WANT the guy to be a superior. The genders were never meant to be equal. Instead of "equality", what you should seek for in a relationship is "balance". Balance implies everything is not equal, but that both parties achieve harmony by giving and taking.

There's another VERY IMPORTANT reason why you want to play the role of the subordinate. This will be explored next time...

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3. Minimizing his risk, Part I (August 3rd)

OK, let's face it. A vast majority of girls will never ask a guy out first. I can stand here and explain every reason why you should -- but we all know that's not going to happen. When it comes to dating, the female mind is programmed to avoid risk and damage to ego.

If you're not going to ask, you must encourage him to ask. How do you do this? You do this by MINIMIZING HIS RISK. Every guy hates rejection, even the most confident ones. To encourage him to ask, you must make him think you'll say YES to his invitation. He feels more risk = less likely he'll ask you out He feels less risk (and more confident) = more likely he'll ask you outThat means, if you play hard-to-get or treat him cruelly or with indifference, he will feel more risk. So every time you think playing stupid games will acheive something positive, think again. You are really screwing yourself in the end.

This is also why I spoke last time about needing to be his subordinate. If you're his superior (if you're older, smarter, more popular than him, etc.) and he feels intimidated, it increases his risk. The same is true for girls who flirt with other guys thinking jealousy will stir his passions. Sure he may get jealous -- but you're also increasing his risk. So ask yourself this question: do you want him to ask you out or do you want him to feel jealous? If you want him to ask, then stop the stupid games and work on minimizing his risk instead.

How do you minimize his risk? Simple. Give him reasons to think you're interested in him and give him indications you would say YES if he pops the question. The next article will go into this in greater depth, including things you can say word-for-word to minimize his risk.

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4. Minimizing his risk, Part II (August 6th)

We left off last time about needing to minimizing his risk.

After you've established a solid friendship with him, you must hint your interest to reduce his risk. I know what some of you are thinking. You cannot initiate interest because you're too shy or it's simply not your thing or you feel it's the guy's duty to initiate. LAME!!    First of all, I'm not suggesting for you to ask him out, declare your love or something drastic. You just have to get off your butt and take a slight risk.

Once in a while...

- Purposely seek him out for interaction
- Saying hello or waving first
- Touch him briefly on the arm during conversation
- Giving him "that look"
- Laugh at his lame jokes
- Use your creativity for other obvious (yet subtle) signs of interest.

If something simple like this is too risky for you, don't complain about not going on dates  . Without signs of interest, he doesn't know you're interested and this increases his risk. If having a healthy lovelife is important enough to you, you can overcome your shyness problem. This is not Korean dramas where the guy pursues the resistant shy girl. Stop living in the imaginary world or all you'll have is an imaginary boyfriend.

There are also verbal hints that express subtle interest without you having to take risks:

- "I really want to watch The Simpsons but all my friends have seen it".
- "There's this restaurant I've always wanted to try but I hate eating alone".
- "I hate that class because I hate studying by myself".
- "Sometimes, it wish I can go clothes shopping with a guy so I can get a guy's opinion".

Upon hearing these lines, most guys will get the hint that 1) you're interested and 2) you don't have a boyfriend. Eventually (and hopefully), he'll follow up by asking you out. If not (after repeated hints), he doesn't like you or he's a complete dork...both of which are reasons to stop wasting time on him.

Now, if a guy doesn't reciprocate your signs of interest, don't suddenly act aloof or cruel to him. And don't suddenly find another guy to flirt with. These kind of games are common female responses when her ego has been damaged. Trust me...girl games are easy to spot. No, it doesn't do anything productive. And yes, it makes you look completely stupid and psycho.  Resist the urge no matter what. If he doesn't reciprociate, be a good sport and play it cool. The key is not allowing your ego and emotions to take over.

Besides, if you do something nice for him, it may take a while to sink in. Haven't you also felt this way when someone does something nice for you?

人品很重要，真的，我已经不是第一次发现这个问题了。正如很多时候在撞大运的时候，我们会感叹一下，人品爆发。人品不好会有很多困扰，比如打电话遭遇中国移动强行停机，比如难得逃一次课就正好点名，比如考了N次考试每次就差几分（几小于5），比如去商场买衣服正巧没有自己的号码，又比如在家拍了几张颇为暴露的照片就被人发到网上受亿万人民瞻仰，这其实归根结底都是人品不好带来了无穷后患。

于是乎，我们要在平时的生活中努力积攒人品，不要用时方恨少啊。咱，平时踏踏实实做人，本本分分做事，赌的就是人品，这可是唯一值得骄傲的本钱啊。

新的一年，要继续好好做人，做个好人，相信，好的人品总有一天会如同星矢的小宇宙一样燃烧起来的。。。。

看了点东西，下面这些文字不是出自我的手，但基本能说出我想说的话。。所以摘了过来。

主要是最后那首歌，很好很强大，很舒服

周末的Moive Time，看了《这个杀手不太冷》。影片讲的是一个孤独杀手与一个十二岁的小女孩之间发生的微妙感情，亦师亦患难见真情从此相依为命。外冷内热的杀手Leon，面对目标时心狠手辣是冷血性格，日常生活却爱喝牛奶种盆栽，冷面杀手现纯真性情，甚至最後为救小女孩而断送性命，侠义之情表露无遗。曲终人散，一曲《shape of my heart》把影片演绎得淋漓尽致。 戴着墨镜的里昂遇见将头靠在楼道冰冷护栏上的玛蒂达，邻家的12岁女孩，深恨着虐待她的父亲、继母和姐姐，然而象母亲般爱自己的小弟弟。柔弱、孤独、倔强、任性，有着天使面孔和冷漠的眼睛。而里昂，一个40岁的意大利杀手，恪守着不杀女人和孩子的行规，是纽约这个大都市里的异乡人。他是沉默的、冷酷的、聪明的，同时也是简单的、淳朴的、天真的，将钱全部交给自己的意大利朋友，因为不识字不会填银行的表格。习惯坐在沙发上睡觉，每次买两盒牛奶，深爱着象他一样无根的兰花，仔细擦拭每一片叶子，清晨把它放在窗外晒太阳，傍晚再搬进来。在没有任务的时候，他会独自坐在空荡荡的电影院里认真地盯着银幕看，孩子般欢喜地咧着嘴傻笑。 这样的两个人，竟然相爱了。40岁的杀手和12岁的边缘少女，两颗孤寂冰冷的灵魂，只要一点点真诚的关怀和温暖，就会迅速地融化贴近。然后就这么不管不顾的，将自己未来的命运完完全全地放在了对方的手心。 生活却总是戏剧化的折磨着人们的心，本以为他们的爱情能如栀子花开，本以为最后的激战中能峰回路转，重燃希望，聪明的里昂假扮受伤的警员混出重围，一步步走向门口不远的光明。在惊天动地的爆炸声里，却轻轻阖上了沉静的眼睛。记得影片开始，玛蒂达问里昂：“人生好辛苦，还是长大就好了？”里昂简单地回答：“一直如此。” “在这儿我们安全了，里昂”，当兰花从盆中移入土地，重返校园的玛蒂达轻声说。镜头越过女孩的头顶渐高渐远，夏日的纽约阳光明媚，绿树葱茏，蓝色的大洋后面高楼林立。 他，就像《Shape of my heart》那首歌里唱的—— ……And if I told you that I loved you You'd maybe think there's something wrong I'm not a man of too many facesThe mask I wear is one. 　如果我告诉你：我爱你， 　你可能会觉得那是假的， 　然而，我并非多重性格的男子， 　我只是带着一张面具。 这样的一颗心，究竟有着怎样的形状，才能如铁石般坚强如山林般沉静，又如火焰般热烈如流水般温柔，叫40岁的杀手为了12岁女孩的爱情赴汤蹈火，令一双宁静的眼睛刚刚看见生命喜悦便从容地面对死亡…… 一颗心，究竟有什么样的形状？

http://www.ben4.com/html/3/200510/24/224.html

点名了 规则：这是一个击鼓传花游戏。传给谁谁就得接着，否则就得挨罚。请认真对待，不要怕暴露隐私。
下面是我的回答，去掉答案就是留给你们的作业。答完后要发表在你们的空间上，且要在标题上注明是谁点了你。你答完后加一道题再传给另外（8）个人，而且要去他（她）的空间留言告诉他（她）被点名了并让他（她）做好作业交作业贴在空间上哦。
这（8）个人要在自己的空间里注明是在哪里接到题的，并且再想一个题目传给其他八个人让游戏继续下去，不得回传，被点到名字的人将得到大家的祝福，并且所有的美丽愿望都会在不久的以后实现。  

小小同学竟然点我。。算你狠

那我要点的8个人：宝宝，房子，小卜，小孩，scotty，黑猫警长，小游，AUSTIN。偶已经很善良的把很多个问题缩减到现在了，其实我也很无奈，大家自己看着办
02 你的名字：张大师，张麦麦，天才木木，胖子（时间段不同名字很多，现在只说还在使用的）

03 多大：   22
04 职业：   学生，建筑师，超人 ，饭桶
05 兴趣：   讲话，睡觉，吃东西，看电影，玩

06 喜欢的异性类型：好人，比较喜欢笑，会比较了解我什么时候是认真，什么时候是玩笑

07 专长是什么：同问题（5）
08 有没有什么证书：证书啊，哈哈哈，很多了。。。小学毕业证，初中毕业证，高中毕业证

09 有烦恼的事吗： 暂无，要有就是外面真的好冷

10 喜欢和讨厌的食物：喜欢：各类水果，还有除了讨厌的都喜欢

                     讨厌：大蒜，大葱，小葱，姜 

11 对你爱的人说一句话：这个，以后现场说

13 用一种动物来形容传答给你的人：小花猫

14 用喜欢的角色来比喻传答问题给你的人的角色：什么意思？没看懂

15 最让你感动或激动的一件事：人生啊
16 理想中的爱情：有时热闹有时安静

17 最近一次哭是为什么: 沙子吹到眼睛里

18 最让你后悔的一件事：好像，没有也

19 为了你最重要的东西，比如说梦想或者朋友或爱人等，你能放弃什么，能放弃一切吗：会
20 喜欢什么季节： 春夏交接的时候，5，6月，天气好，而且很有盼头（因为快到暑假）

21 最喜欢的地方： 华师一的红楼
22 最喜欢听的歌是哪首: 这个，多啊

23 如果只剩下一天的生命，会做些什么和爱的人在一起：拒绝回答这么悲惨的话题

33 你最想得到的一样东西是什么（可以是某个人）：机器猫

37 如果你很爱你老公（老婆），可他还有个affair，what would you do：哈哈，我可以假装看不懂英文吗？

38 在什么时候会想到我：想你的时候啊
39 曾经做过最丢脸的是什么事情：这个可以不说吗？就是掉到垃圾桶里

43 可不可以和一个你不爱可是却很适合结婚的人结婚挖？这个暂时还不思考

44 你回答了这么多辛苦哇？这个问题真猥琐，还好我自行缩减了问题
45 我是个什么样的人？比我还喜欢说话的女人（语速很快）

46 你们用不用黑人牙膏啊？这。。。真是什么问题都有，用了
47 你最想和我一起做什么事情？明天不就要一起出去玩吗

48 我给你印象最深刻的记忆是什么？我们在宝宝生日那天半夜在同济打球，然后又发生了很多事情
49 最想对我说的话是什么？咱们都好好过

50 理想的未来是什么样的？开开心心

52:会选择你爱的人还是爱你的人？恶俗的问题啊
54.你相信爱情是存在的吗？  相信
55.你喜欢我什么，不喜欢我什么？除了老是装消失别的都还喜欢

56.多长时间挖一次耳朵？纠结，一般在看到挖耳勺的时候会想到
58.觉得自己什么时候最幸福？下雨天躺在床上吃着东西看着喜欢的电视

59.你对‘good man’的理解？ 好男人。。以前提到过，大家自己去看哦
60:以后的宝宝是想要男孩还是女孩？一个哥哥一个妹妹
61：感情上，更在乎天长地久的平淡还是曾经拥有的热恋：这个不好说，一段一段时间有区别的

终于决定在新的一年给自己找个新的特别的开端，于是决定去云南了，估计要2个星期才回来，呵呵。。。要暂时告别我的空间了

不过，以后会补上，最后祝我自己好运

以前貌似有个词挺时髦的。。叫文艺青年，每次一说这词，我脑海里就浮现出一赖皮赖脸的小伙子，更那吹拉弹唱的诡异图景，后来本人见多识广了一点点，才发现这词包含的意思可（拖长音）广泛了，写书的，唱歌的，弹琴的，跳舞的，卖弄长相的，甚至包括无所事事的，都能跟文艺青年沾上边，当然，还有一次叫愤青，这咱就下回分解了。

记得高中那会，大家都是年轻气盛啊，总是不大安分，每天穷折腾想捣鼓出点奇异的声响，那时候大家都死命的往文艺青年的道路上奋起狂奔。。。没事写写小诗小文的，再自我哀伤陶醉一番。

现在转眼就2008了，咱也要办奥运了，眼看越来越不文艺了，就连青年估计过几年也算不上了，因此，我决定要脱离这个组织，向着新生活大步前进，特作文一篇以示决心

今天又到了周日，应该是要回学校的日子了，其实每周的假日还是颇为充实的，可却常常厌学，当然也可以被称作打不起精神来。

前天又看了色戒，昨天看了投名状，连着两天出入武汉最繁华的地段，却不知怎么觉得热闹之后隐藏着一切苍凉。快圣诞了，中国人好像不知从何时开始，热衷起了这个西洋味十足的节日，江汉路上张灯结彩啊，商家似乎总爱为谁家的圣诞树更高些拼个你死我活。

发现民众里竟然在卖LOMO了，看来连摄影都开始变成一种潮流，紧跟着的便是一步步走向恶俗吧

走在江汉路周边的小巷里，才隐约感受到了一点生活，也叫人气吧，巴洛克的墙根下，或站或蹲，一排人推着卖各类杂货的小车，来来往往，恣意的选择自己的话题

花店堆满了各色的玫瑰，这是一种让多少女生魂牵梦绕，既爱又恨的物种啊，而现在就一捆一捆的堆在不起眼的路灯下，旁边还杵着艳俗的红色水桶，里面漂着绿色花泥的碎末。。

呵呵，和朋友在一起总是开心的，因为又太多说不清的东西却能有人理解，我终究还是个开朗的家伙，所以注定当不了忧郁的艺术家。。。恩。。也很好嘛

本大侠今天上街视察民情，偶遇一技术含量很高的小偷，高手过招，难免有所损伤，于是本大侠手机遗失，遗失了大家的电话号码，因此，希望各位有识之士伸出友谊之手，闲来无聊就发个短信我，内容，字数，题材不限，但在最后右下角著名作者名称。。谢谢。。。

小弟在此拜谢各位了！！！！

红色是快乐是希望也是警戒，不知为什恶魔，似乎我从小便对红色有着特殊的喜爱，最近尤甚

一部色戒，又把城里搅得一片血雨腥风，每每逢人，便成谈资。李安叔叔用一如继往的暗淡画面描述着这个关于爱的无奈故事，也许有人不把这认为是爱，可是我却这样觉得。与其因为画面的阴暗而将这电影的基调看作灰色，不如用红。年少轻狂的大学生的爱国激情，一起唱着振奋的歌曲，谋划他们自以为周密的计划时的红是激荡的，带着太多的冲动和无知。麦太太鲜红的指甲是为了掩饰自己的身份还是蒙蔽自己的感情，没有人知道，也包括她自己。易先生的身份，其实就是汉奸，他的恐惧，谨慎，和战战兢兢的感情，犹如鲜血，红得炙热，灼伤了自己，更伤了别人。

有人说我不该总用诡异来形容我不知该怎样形容的事物，也许，是的

武汉的秋天终究还是磨磨蹭蹭的来了。。。虽然好像有点晚，但肃杀依然，一阵凛冽的秋风瞬间即打破了我对夏天残余的一丁点的幻想，也罢，浇去了一切的浮躁。心思开始琢磨一些不着边际的东西，在夏天喜欢用戏谑的角度看待生活，解决不了的问题就躲进房间，看着周遭的阳光，一缕一缕的，用胡思乱想去逃避，这很受用。
看到一段文字，以前似乎曾经在哪看过，很简单的故事，却感动人心。
Laura and Tommy were lovers;he wanted to give her everything,flowers,presents and most of all,a wedding ring.He saw a sign for a stock race,a thousand-dollar prize it read. He couldn't get laura on the phone so to her mother TOMMY said:
"tell laura I love her,tell laura I need her.tell laura I may be late,I've something to do that can not wait."
He drove his car to the racing ground:;he was the youngest driver there.The crowd roared as they start the race.Round the track they drove at a dearly place.No one know what happen that day,how his car overturned in flames.But as they pulled him from the twisted wreck,with his dying breath they heard him say,
Tell laura I love her,tell laura I need her.Tell laura not to cry.my love for her will never die.
Now in the chapel where laura prays for her tommy,who passed away.-- was just for laura he lived and died--alone in the chaple she can hear him cry,
"tell laura I love her,tell laura I need her. tell laura not to cay,my love for her will never die."

昨天是国庆节，于是和宝宝房子，三人成虎（滥用成语）的上街游荡，顺便给房子同学一个改过自新，力争表现的机会。

我们的祖国之强大，人民生活之富足，统统在这一天让我感受得透彻啊，（很深刻的开头啊）

街上的人啊，真叫一个摩肩接踵，卖国旗的阿姨生意兴隆，大家的购买欲简直惊人的膨胀啊，每家商店都是大包小包的人，跟不要钱似的。

俺们三个比较可怜，看到拥挤的人流，内心却反而孤寂啊。宝宝妈妈说得好，“要是你们三个再找不到男朋友，就把你们三个隔离起来。不许再在一块完了，每次在一起玩就都没有紧迫感，要找到了才能再放你们一块”  好精辟的言论，不愧是宝宝的妈妈，赞一个。

于是我们就决定到江滩上装忧郁了，那叫一个内心纠结啊。子在川上曰：“逝者如斯夫”  好是伤感的场景啊。

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听到一种说法，是世界上是有王子的，只是不是每个女孩都是公主。觉着说得感觉让人心口麻麻的，说不上什么滋味 ，挺怪。估计最近当粗人当习惯了，突然听到如此细腻的话，反而产生了不良反应了。女生似乎都是喜欢偶像剧或者韩剧的，空虚也好，幻想也还，打发时间也好，反应出的现实就是没有了这些虚无的男男女女在屏幕上乱窜，很多人茶余饭后就缺少了很多谈资了。我最近也是十分有闲情的重温了几部老片，感觉确实人生充满了希望啊，总觉得会有奇迹，会有王子和公主的故事。

可现实是，大家继续该干嘛干嘛了，假如我是小强，倘若能遇到旺财，也足够心满意足了，至少还有共同那个语言不是。。。。

今天去了超市，买了好多东西，有我最喜欢的芒果布丁，还有菠萝蜜干，还买了一只大榴莲（现在终于知道怎么挑了，记得以前买的总是生的，还被人嘲笑，还买过一只生的菠萝蜜。。。更加可笑呢，以后谁要想买，我免费提供咨询）买了橄榄油，还有小时候喜欢的波力海苔，当然不能忘记可爱的棒棒奶酪。还有许许多多的好吃的东西，买吃的的过程中，我就一直觉得好饿啊，看着美食也觉得是种天大的幸福了。

回到家，研究了凉拌西兰花的做法，就是加橄榄油和凉拌醋，味道真的很不错呢，而且看起来也漂亮，是我最新学会的菜式哦，营养丰富，口感清爽，制作方便，有兴趣的同学也可以致电我，我会更加详尽的解释的（觉得好像在做广告一样），不过橄榄油拌的沙拉，确实要比那个什么丘比沙拉酱的好吃，尤其是蔬菜，换做水果的话，那种沙拉酱也还不错了。

最近觉得要开始好好过点正常的日子，不要在昏昏沉沉的了，于是开始日行一善，每天不管大小，干点好事总没错啊，（至今帮人带路3次，捡到东西还人2次，其他略）这样总能让我自己的运气也变得好些吧，呵呵。再者开始继续学习舞蹈，以前学了都一直没能坚持，这次打算去继续学JAZZ还有拉丁，听说还有肚皮舞学，也打算去看看好了，每天拿个45分钟出来上课，再花个1个小时练习，在悠闲的大四，这点空闲倒还是有的，权当是锻炼身体了，总比在操场上跑圈有意思一些呢。

最后要通知一下，本人搬家了，家里的电话换了哦，前4位不变，后四位变成了4362.。。。。。（以前是3562）大家有事找我不要打错哦。。。

开学第一周就随着本人的回家宣告了结束，要说这周的小日子啊，确实那不是一般的滋润，且不论头两天的腐败生活，单单想想周三那天，就已经让人兴致盎然了。先提供一下背景知识，武汉有三大寺庙，分别是归元寺，宝通禅寺，和莲溪寺，其中的莲溪寺由于不是对外开放的景点，知道的人不是很多，原本我也是不知道的，后来由于种种奇妙的原因，我们就决定去那里看看古建，拜拜菩萨，也能为新的一学年讨个好的彩头不是。路上就已经笑话迭出，搭我们的TAXI司机是个大好人而且心直口快，属于路见不平，必拔刀相助的类型。他听说我们要去那样一个并不出名的尼姑庵，就很直接的联想到我们估计是有什么事情想不开，打算出家了，落得清净。于是乎便开始旁敲侧击的开导我们，诸如，现在生活那么美好，小姑娘年纪轻轻不要这么悲观 ，听着让我由喜到悲，再由悲到无奈。

好不容易下了车，东拐西转到了门口，却又发现大门紧锁，我们到的不是时候，师傅们正在午休，于是折了2个小时的纸元宝（传说是要烧给孤魂野鬼的，看来我以后走夜路都不用害怕了，怎么也是做了一定贡献的）。后来又听了1个小时诵经，说的是孝道的故事，最后还在住持那里接受了1个小时的佛学熏陶，到最后出门的时候，感觉就象是去过了另外的一层时空，好像一切都是幻觉，不过心倒也真的安静了。

转身出来就去了热闹的地方逛街，吃饱喝足了，又重新感觉到周围的热闹和人气，看来过于超脱的生活只是水中月，镜中花，引人遐想，却终究不真实。

昨天兴致勃勃的颠去学校报到，在经历了在银行漫长的等待，和搬家后的大清理之后，我还是吭哧吭哧跑回了家。恐怕是潜意识里还不大想就这样开始又一年的生活吧。。还想要在陷入正常化之前再进行一下无谓的挣扎。虽然结局都还是相似的。。那就是明天的去上课了。

看到了新的课表。。课不算很多，但零零碎碎的，突然有点羡慕工作了的人呢，虽然辛苦，可终究还是与我们这些依旧呆在学校里的人有不同的感触吧。。读书都读了15年了，真的好久了。

去学校看到很多新生，还有不少家长（常常一个学生后面跟着4，5个人），那长相叫一个稚嫩，表情叫一个憧憬啊，弄得我真的觉得自己老了哦。大学的时间好快，人家虽然还会把我错当大一的，推销电话卡我，可咱自己心里像明镜一样，亮堂堂的，呆在学校的日子也不多了呢。。。

好好过生活，A ZA A ZA FIGHTING。。。。。。。 

经历了十几天的离去之后。。。我又完好无缺的从我们美丽的大上海回来了。。。

朋友依旧。。美人依旧。。。 美食依旧。。。天气依旧。。。。

似乎一切并没有因我的离去而改变嘛。。。（不过这也很正常）

上海之行算是充实而且丰富的。。。。每天在街上乱晃。。。去了不少地方，看了不少东西，认识了不少人。。。

长见识了啊。。。。总的来说呢。。。只能是一言难尽啊。。

最蹊跷的事情就是在上海看到了关于高迪的展览，真没有想到。。高迪同志看来真的和我很有渊源啊。

再说回来以后，刚一到家，说时迟那是快，宝宝的短信就到了，问我活动的事情，那个时间点真是掌握的绝妙啊。

然后呢，我就开始过我今年的生日了

在上海没能坐上摩天轮，回来倒是给我补上了，武汉的夜景其实也很不错，只是平时我们不曾留意，因为熟悉所以忽视，这好像是人类的通病了。我们又怎能免俗呢，大家都是大俗人嘛。。。吃吃喝喝晃晃，七嘴八舌一番，再感叹一下人生苦短，世事无常，一天便也过得飞快

感谢发短信给我的家伙们。。。至少还记得本人的寿辰。。。还有宝宝和房傻。。。跟我晃悠了一天。。。还有我们F4的小小同学，虽然人在北京，却依旧心系组织，这种精神值得我们大家学习（不过小小同学，你也不用在MSN上写“今天是睡神张小木的生日，大家拜一拜”以后做人要低调）

最后，对那些不记得了的人，提出严肃的批评。。。。以后要好好改正态度，端正思想。。。

终于要搬家了。。。。。在闹腾了很久以后。。。。。。估计明天这个时候已经在新家了呢。。。。

老房子有很多的回忆，也接待了不多的好朋友，收拾东西的时候，看到很多零零碎碎的东西，也想到了很多的往事

大都是开心的，即使有的当时会觉得有点郁闷，现在想起来也释然了，挺有意思

生活挺匆忙的。。。后天11点的飞机又要颠去上海了。。。。（房傻也要去。。。。神奇）

希望有个开心的宝贝旅程。。。。 

最近玩得挺瘋的，昨天坐过山车撞伤了手，流血了，后来跳到喷泉裏，又摔了一跤，一身都是水，然后笑得都停不下来了。
记得以前出去玩，张猪非要拉我们去坐过山车，好不容易花了半个小时说服了所有的人，结果买票的时候被告知今天过山车不开放。我承认自己不算一个特别坚强勇敢的人，可是这次也算豁出去了，那确实还是挺刺激的。很久没有这样放肆的过日子了，這半年总为了这样那样的事情压抑不爽，估计也跟所谓的心情的高潮低谷有点关系。

喜欢粉饰太平，喜欢好像什么有没有发生，其实生活也算平静，
可能就是太过平静，又暗藏杀机导致了我的恐慌吧。
以前经常是疯疯颠颠的，可能是和宝宝啊房傻啊，每天嬉闹有关，当时觉着生活特别美好似的，中午出去吃个宫爆鸡丁就觉得是世间美味，人生无欲无求了。
还是当个疯丫頭好。。。淑女实在当得太累，当一个特别有思想的人也挺累的，总得动脑子。
要求多了。想法多了，生活就麻烦多了
看到身边不少人过着挺滋润的小日子，羡慕啊。
老了老了啊。。。。。。 又要到了那个我期盼又厌恶的日子了。。。。

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